Woo hoo. I noticed you replying to another thread...and went hunting figured this good news must be out there somewhere.

What I didn't expect to find was a real conversation in the midst of a celebration.

I think all people are different, and learn to manage their own hearts as best they can. I learned a long time ago that crushes happen whether I want them to or not...and that love and respect can be part of a crush. But a crush isn't a proper relationship, any more than a roller coaster is a useful means of transportation. It's fun. It's a rush. It's good for my heart. But my mind knows the difference, so I'm never really scared because it knows I'm safe, and that my primary relationship (not sure what else to call it...as we're not married) is safe.

I'm happy with that compromise, which is a good thing...cause I've NEVER been able to keep myself from getting crushes. You have to find the compromise that's right for you.

Which is my 2cents. But mostly, I just wanted to add my grin to the pile. I love it when my silly optimisms are justified. Even though I have no right to expect it.