hehe...just saw this thread and thought I'd add my name to the list of those fessing up

My b/f and I actually just bought out first restraints (velcro bondage cuff things) yesterday and a blindfold and rubber "tickler" wand (as well as several other new toys!). I'm psyched- we've both tried the "holding" method and it works- I think he likes me to be the tie-ee for a bit and then agress back the most.

My pref? I dunno. I like being dominant, but my personality is VERY agressive so being the 'tie-ee' turns me on the most. the B/f isn't the most dominant guy, but when he gets the ok, he's an ANIMAL and I love it I'm excited to add this to our bedroom repertoire!

wahoo! Can't WAIT until tonight!

OOH! and forgot-

Rules: safe word (we always use the safe word from the family guy episode where they are performing bondage (just as a joke).

and NO TICKLING! which is hard, since I'm so ticklish its hard to touch me w/o setting me off on the tickles