Hmmm... it sounds like things are "progressing" quite naturally and it might be that you just let that happen. I'm not sure I understand your question... what, exactly are you "looking for?" Just telling her she means a lot, etc. should not be that difficult.

If you're looking for some sort of commitment to a better defined relationship, that can get complex.

If you'd like to have sex with her, just let your hands roam before you "fall asleep in each other's arms" and see what the reaction is...

What ever it is, communication is answer of course... with your words and your hands and your eyes...

Keep us posted! (Pun intended)

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