I am very self-concious as master1012 said. I'm about 160 at 5ft 8inches. It does bother me. The first time i allowed master1012 see me i was sure he would see my fat and look away in disgust. He didn't though. He told me i was beautiful and sexy and he made me feel a lot better about myself. Lucky for me and him some of my fat did go to my chest Keep telling her she's beautiful, she may not act like she wants to hear it sometimes, but it really does mean a lot coming from the one you love i assure you!