I too would love to know how to not be jealous. There is quite a large green-eyed-monster who lives in my skin. I know that I'm insecure, but I also know that being somewhat possessive (which is one of the roots of my jealousy) is part of me, just as much as being short is part of me.

It doesn't help that I've had legitimate causes to be jealous, either... in the past, I mean. I do know that this is a huge reason that I could never EVER seriously consider a threesome.

Yes, I too babble. I would love some real advice as to how not to be jealous. It's just that I've seen firsthand what "innocent flirting" can lead to. Personally, I don't really believe there is such a thing.

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


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