Brian not once when i read your post did i think you were forcing her. If your asking her and she isnt getting mad at you then its not wrong for you to ask her about it. You seem to know your GF well enough to know if she is upset about it, and you seem to understand how she feels. Just talk to her about it and maybe have her talk to some of the ladies here we may be able to help. If she wants to hop on we will all say hello
till then take care and as the others said take some pics with poloroid's you never know she may like them more than she thinks. Start SLOW tho as like bra and undies pics let her see that she doesnt look half bad. No matter what you say to her its how she feels and its hard to change a girls mind

Good luck to you
Hugs
Sar

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