The kind of person I'm drawn to is:

Genuine - doesn't tell me what I wanna hear unless they feel it too

Confident - but not conceited.

Comfortable with my being attracted to them - You know that I think you're sexy but still not totally convinced of it yourself.

Honest - about everything except for my small penis

Maternal - you have to love your kids.

Willing to communicate - I don't care if it's good or bad...just tell me what you're thinking and we'll take it from there.

Socially aware - isn't out to save the world, but they're doing something to preserve their little corner of it because they're realistic in their goals.

Willing to let me cook - because I love to

Understanding of my needs - but strong enough to speak up for yours

Adventurous - Sexually and otherwise

Fun - because I am too.

And the most important of all? You have to love me back!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.