If I had created such a list, and expected my future partner to have had many of the 'basic' qualities ticked off (a job, a driving license, likes lots of different foods, seriously big on travelling, doesn't live at home with parents etc etc) then I would never have got together with Fussy.

When I first met him in real life, I told him that we were totally unsuitable for each other, since all of the above things were important to me in finding a partner (as well as all the emotional and 'deeper' things). If he'd been applying for a job as 'my boyfriend' he wouldn't even have got to the interview stage.

However, I liked Fussy inspite of myself, and fell in love with him for who he is.....he is my soul mate and that's what's important.

I would strongly advise anyone against creating a wish list for the person they want in their lives, and instead, would urge people to create a wishlist for the type of person they want to be. If you are the best person you can be, you'll attract the best people you could possibly wish for.

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