Originally Posted by Lilith

Some people also believe that you can't attract what you want unless you know what that is. And that sometimes you miss out on someone having many of those attributes because you were not aware that they were high on the priority list. It can also help people who consistently make bad choices in partners ( my mom) to look at what they want in a partner vs. what they have chosen in the past. Then they can reflect on why they make those choices. Repeatedly, consistently, over and over and over