I think it's a shame people close to us want to judge us by our opinions. I mean if you're so morally inclined why judge me at all? Isn't that immoral? I'd have probalbly done the same thing you did. There's no use getting all worked up trying to discuss issues with a closed mind. Informed people discuss, uninformed people argue when they're faced with the unknown and then they make it personal. Definitely a no win situation.

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