I had a very sexless marriage and I found the internet and went cybering like mad for a while. It was having affairs without being out in the open.

I met a woman with whom i have shared a great deal over the past 3 years. My wife from whom I am seperated considered it an affair though we have never met.

I can see her viewpoint and it is too late for my marriage.

I have not cybered anyone at Pixies but perhaps I might one day. I have some great friends with whom I send PM's to quite often, usually just personal stuff. I flirt and make innuendo cos it is fun but I have respect for people and would not offend on purpose.

This place is fulfilling in a lot of ways and many couples come here. I don't hear of people trying to break up relationships at all, so unlike other adult meeting places either sexually or romantically oriented. You on accasion see people asking for people in certain areas for contacts and they rarely get a reply.

I urge you to sit down and talk, really talk with your husband about your worries. Offer to join him and share Pixies with him as many do. If yoyu cannot agree between yourselves, Please please go to counselling together. That will really help.

I wish you both all the best in the world and hope that you can build your marriage back up. I support and respect relationships and would never knowingly advocate for anyone to leave theirs without doing the utmost to sort out the problems first.