I was every bit of 6 years old. My brother was 4. He remembers more about life before the divorce, ironically. Everyone says I really withdrew into my own little world to escape the stress. We both knew there was stress, and fights going on. We both tried to be extra good, to make up for it. Kids react in funny ways.

I don't know what to tell you mate, it sounds like you're up against it. All I can tell you is to document everything, and keep looking for answers. Others might have more concrete support to offer. The practical side of divorce isn't something I've ever had to do (touch wood).

G