i also had this problem i was attracted to girls way outa my league .. first of all you gota not put yourself down think highly of yourself.. you would be amazed at what that does.. 8 months ago i couldnt get a girl to look at me i was down on myself all the time .. then i said screw em and i started thinking better about myself and the girls that i found attractive started comeing up to me was wierd but i liked it.. and dont count any girl out .. i almost did that and i woulda missed out .. the love of my life right now is a girl i was going to just push off because i thought of how people would see me with her what they would think.. dont think that what makes you happy should be what is the biggest thing is..