dgalileo,

What a lovely post! Yay for you on all counts!

As for giving blowjobs, it can be a tricky business since all men are different and we women can't even begin to imagine what it feels like.

I'd say the best advice I can give to you both is to take your time with it.....a bit of teasing before hand goes a long way, and experiment. If she's willing, get her to try different things and tell her how they feel. Make sure that you give her encouragement if something's really good, and don't be afraid to voice your suggestions (faster, slower, deeper, tighter, more pressure around the head, more pressure around the base - whatever feels best for you). If she isn't using one of her hands on the base of your cock at the same time, get her to try that as it's often the case that a hand alone just won't be enough, and you can also experiment with different positions.

I'm sure I need not tell you that making sure you're clean and hygenic, before she starts to suck you will help her feel at ease and will make the experience nicer for her, with the end result that she'll be more enthusiastic. This alone, can make the difference between good oral and great oral!

Finally, on swallowing, I find that if I kind of close off my throat so that the cum doens't go down it directly, but rather collects in my mouth (a bit like when drinking from a water fountain) it stops me from gagging. I kind of hold it in my mouth until after he's finished cumming and then swallow, sometimes after he's actually withdrawn from my mouth entirely.

The other thing I'd suggest, is if she really can't get the hang of taking your cum in her mouth, perhaps she might be receptive to the idea of withdrawing your cock from her mouth at the last minute, so that you cum on her face and breasts......some women love it, some won't entertain the idea, but it's usually something that men find pretty stimulating visually, so it might be a solution, if she's willing to be brave and try it. I'm not a great fan of the taste of sperm, so I find it can be a good alternative on days where I just don't feel like swallowing.

Good luck and have fun discovering what works for you!

Lou
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