Ok so me and my wife have been together for over 11 years now! The sex before children was incredible! She was adventurous and wore lots of sexy lingerie. After the first child everything started going down hill...She kept a few of the pounds from the pregnacy, but still felt ok. But now it is four years after the second and she has kept a few more pounds. She doesn't think she is sexy, she won't wear lingeries, and our sex life has gone from 4-5 times a week to maybe once.

I think she is the most beautiful woman in the world! She is so SEXY! I tell her this every day. What can I do to help her feel more beautiful? How can I help her understand that I love her the way she is? I am at a loss! She is only 15 lbs more than when we met in college...and she is so damn sexy...why can't she see that?

Please any advice would be welcome...I just want her to feel good about her self!