Show her this website I found.

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I say that lightly, but I know what you mean. Mrs. WI doesn't think she's sexy, and doesn't know how I can think she is either. But I do. It's a very difficult place to be and I sympathize. All I can say is be sincere with your thoughts and actions. Say what you mean, and mean what you say.

Hope it helps.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.