((((WI)))) ~ You've summed up the entire situation very well. We have the same problems in our home. I often don't feel beautiful...even though Mr. Osuche constantly tells me that I am. And the weight thing is tough. I diet, but if he *tells* me to diet (even if he is only supporting me) I get pissed off.

I suggest you let her find a group of friends to support her and coach her, and stay out of it...........other than telling her she is beautiful Plus, if she starts exercising, the endorphins will kick in.....and she'll feel sexy and horny as heck. I know I do.

Good luck!

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