Jayman-

Make sure that your actions reinforce her words. Its not enough to say she is beautiful, if you look at another woman walking by when you are out together. Your actions have to back up the words you say. In fact, you might think about not saying it. I say this from personal experience. When I say something along those lines, my wife thinks I have an another motive, and I did. Show her with actions and deeds, a light touch here, a look there, flowers and wine for no reason. Use the actions to build the fire, not the words. Once I shut my mouth and let my fingers do the walking---so to speak---our sex life has increased in frequency. There may be other issues here also, as in hormone levels, libido, etc.... All you can do at this point is show her how you feel. And be honest, but pick and choose your timing. It is ok to sit at the kitchen table and talk about your sex life, but dont do it in the bedroom as you are "making your move" =) And if that doesnt work, thats why God gave you two hands and a digital camera....=P

Good Luck
McJim