First of all, I must state that I have not yet read the replies to your post. So, if my 2 cents relate to any repliers, I apologize in advance and promise to read all of this thread asap.

this is an empathy (excuse me for my grammer and vovabulary):

I have lived together with my wife for more than a year before we got married. In fact, we got married because she was pregnant. Before that, we had a wonderful sex life. She even wanted to try swinging and we both submitted our profiles to some sites. We used to have sex 2-3 times a day at least not mentioning a day of 6 LOL.

We used to look at adult sites, including pixies but did not join much, but I believe that her reaction would be much different if I posted my pictures here that time.

When she got pregnant and after we married:
she resigned from fantasies (swinging)
she put on weight but thats not so important.
she began asking questions of whom I talk with
she became jealous of a ex-girlfriend 2000 miles away

and now, our child is 5 years old and nothing has changed