I'd doubt you'll find many Pixies ladies who will encourage you to stray... We have all observed how a bit of communication about sex with one's partner does a lot to remedy these situations. Try talking to her about it ~~ and perhaps trying a few new techniques on her to "motivate" her ~~ and see if that will work first.

Good luck!

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney