Some may see that posting as a way to draw attention
to themselves. "Pick me!!"

As a man I don't have the attention directed that the girls
have from types they may not wish to deal with.

If a poster of either gender seems to be a kindred spirit
then you need to look at their posts and work out if you
really want to chat.

The "I'm a Taurus, wanna Cyber?" must be so tough.

Give it time and effort and a bit of attention to the ladies.

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