What are you afraid of? I always act the same and meeting people on the net is no different for me than meeting them face to face. I am going to meet another member of Pixies when she comes out to Australia next year.
We are good friends with respect and interest in each other. Nothing sexual is planned as she has an existing relationship that is important to her and I always respect relationships. If circumstances are changed when she visits well that would be a different ballgame. The thing is that no matter what, we are friends and like each other and we will meet and enjoy the others company.
All the people I have made friends with in Pixies are people that I would willingly have as friends in any situation.