I have to admit that I was a bit awe-struck by Lixy's post, and while I agreed with it more from a work point than a personal/home point I immediatlely began to ponder the reason. All I can think of is the patriarchal system that we have for the most part all been raised in where back to when Man grew feet and walked upright it was Man that earned the bread, and the Woman that served it. For the most part in society, women are still the homemakers and caregivers. I think until Mr Mom rather that Soccer Mom becomes the norm we as women will continue to carry more of the responsibilities. Also, much like Cheyanne said, I think as women we tend to be a bit more possessive of our tasks and less likely to ask for help. Afterall, the bachelor pad got it's reputation for smelling of beer and pizza and not a floral bouquet for a reason