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Originally Posted by scotzoidman

My guess is this may be another case of Porn Expectations, wherein the young & inexperienced believe what they see the pros do is the norm...actually there is no "norm", except what's normal for you...I only have an "impressive squirt" on very special occasions, usually after a lengthy exciting bout with the S/O, usually my orgasmic efforts just dribble down the knuckles...I seriously doubt any lady partner would be let down because you don't have to wipe down the walls & ceiling afterward.....

I was gonna say that! Well, not exactly...but something similar.

I don't care to guess who you are dribble...but may we know your age and sexual experience?

I was thinking, if you are young and fairly inexperienced except for being a film buff, your expectations are way too high. It's like watching a Superman movie and claiming, "I can't fly and I wanna know why". The differences between everyone is what makes the world an interesting place. How boring it'd be if we were all the same!

If you've previously been able to shoot to the moon, and now you suddenly can't in this new relationship, go see a doctor (urologist). If it's always been the norm to ooze, alone or with someone else, well...then...that's the norm for you. It's not the biggest issue in a relationship...unless you make it so! Some women wouldn't even think it unusual unless you pointed it out. And still, maybe even not then but only for the concern factor...concern for your concern. Each and every one of my lover's was different in the "cum shot" aspect. I never even thought of it till now, and I just took it as...that's the way they do it.

If you keep making mountains out of molehills, she might be scared away fore thinking she is inadequate and cannot stimulate you enough to make you shoot.