My experience is that men don't realise how sensitive the clitoris is, so a tongue is more gentle on that area which is a good thing. Men do tend to get overly wet and slimy when they give oral which is horrible. We girls make our own lubrication if you treat us right, y'know!!! I personally like different things at different times - variety is the key and perhaps with your woman, you could be the one to change her mind about penetration!!

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