Welcum to Pixies jeannieO! I know you and your hubby will love it here!

I was going to start a new thread about this very topic...but I think I'll just say it here.

Just the other evening, Mr. Lixy and I were smooching and fooling around. I sometimes use my digits on him but usually never penetrate too far. This time I went a bit deeper than usual and suddenly he ejaculated...but didn't really work up to it as he normally does...and said he really didn't like it all that much. I was surprised by this response as I had always thought an orgasm was an orgasm was an orgasm. He said no, that this was different...no feeling, no anticipation of release, no ohhhhh or ahhhhh, none of the good stuff that comes with cumming. He said that when I touched a certain spot (his G spot/prostate) there was no stopping it...but there was no good feeling leading up to or following it.

Hmmmmmmmm...made me wonder if it's like this with all men. I thought the attraction would have been that he cums. Now I know the foreplay and afterglow are just as important to him as they are to me!

Pretty good question though...dontcha think? Is arousal of the prostate a means to a satisfying orgasm...or does it always leave [him] feeling empty and used?

Gentlemen? What do ya think?

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