I would like some tips/tricks/anything to relieve sexual frustration? DH is working on health and depression issues and is just too tired or not interested. I'm helping him with all of that, so please don't think me insensitive to him. It's just that twice a year is stretching it a bit and it does affect my mood. Suggestions? (No, I don't have any "toys". Just a pitiful vibrator that buzzes at me once in awhile.) Help?