welcum! glad you found us! and i concur with lilith about fingers at first and then work your way up to sumpin' bigger and/or buzzing! and like Boilergirl said, you need lube, and there are a tasty warming lubes out there that are waterbased that i really like. i found mine at my favorite Adult bookstore, but there are places that you can order them off of the net as well. (I like the Strawberry flavored one's the best)

Good Luck and Happy Playing!

Love, Lizz