Each person is more than the sum of his/her parts...and what you are talking about are just parts. Like Lilith, attitude plays a big part in my mind as to whether someone is sexually attractive to me or not. Perhaps when I was younger physical appearance played more of a part to me as far as an initial attraction that happens in order to get to know someone, but now that isn't so important to me - a person is much more than what you see and that adds to any attraction that I would feel toward that person.

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