Well, I did see the Gyno right after our first few times (coincidentally) and told her about it, but she didn't seem too worried. We do use condoms, and I'm prolly going on the pill real soon too- for other reasons. Uhm, due to the long distance thing our times apart have gone from 2 weeks up until a month and a half. I was thinking the same thing as what love_2licku was saying.... I mean this past weekend, it seemed to take longer before the bleeding did start and it wasn't as much as before....almost over before it started. I've gotta see the doc again in the next few weeks, so I'm gonna bring it up again then....since I won't be seeing my boy for many months from now... I don't think nerves were a major factor this last time....nor was the lube part....we kinda got each other going earlier in the day (before a friend's wedding) and *boom!* was all over the place come the time we went back to the hotel after the reception...we were both more than ready and willing.

Believe me, if this weren't long distance and I wasn't totally in love with him, I'd find a way to get more "workouts" in...