The first time I performed cunnilingus was with my wife. I knew going into it that I would enjoy it, having seen many educational videos. Just watching it hits me. I must've been ok, because she did climax, and later she admitted that she was totally suprised (and very glad) that I wasn't squeamish and was so enthusiastic about doing it. At this point, I'm pretty confident in my ability, but it would be nice to get a second opinion...for research purposes, of course.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.