Mark,

Only a couple of days ago you were posting about another girl called Amy, who you were seeing over Christmas, so I assume you've not been 'wooing' this girl for very long.

If you really like this girl and you may be falling love with her, then I'm sure it won't bother you to know that you may have to wait a LOT longer to have sex than you've already waited. A friend of mine recently confessed that she was with her boyfriend a year before they had sex and in the following 18 months of their sexual relationship she never had an orgasm. She's never masturbated and was never really 'switched on' to sex and the guy in question ended the relationship in the end (probably due in part to these factors).

While I can't tell you the thing to say or do to get her to open up sexually, I can tell you that trying to persuade/plead with/cajole her in any way at all are sure fire ways, not only to push her away from you, but also probably mess her head up even more about sex and relationships for the future.

I'd say if you're prepared to love, cherish, be faithful and nurture her indefinitely without the slightest hint that you may EVER have sex with her, then by all means, go for it - you may be just the kind of guy she needs, but if you're not prepared for that, don't even consider trying to have sex with her, it'll end in tears, and they'll be hers.

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