I love reading your post's wyndhy...but my ADD kicked in big time! Thank goodness you said something about big butts, cause it helped get me back on track again!

Mark - you are paying the price for the tone you inadvertently set with your first posts. Had you been more elaborate with the details, as you did above, everyone may have had a better understanding of where you're coming from. Referring to intercourse with the previous virgin as a Mercy Fuck labled you someone with no respect for women. Outlining the circumstances as you just have, indicates that you did something that brings the respect you have for yourself into question. We've all made mistakes. Recognizing them and learning from them helps shape us into better people. We only have what you tell us to figure out who you are. And knowing who you are helps us to answer your questions.

Speaking of your question...from what I can determine, you are dating a virgin that seems sexually curious at times but because of her upbringing, is inhibited and unknowledgable in intimate matters. She has expressed this to you and requested that you help her explore the world of sex so that when she is comfortable with the idea of intercourse...she can enter into the experience with an informed mind, and ready to have fun. As part of your crusade for information to present her with, you have enlisted the aid of Pixies. Well, I can tell you that there aren't many places out there that can help anyone become informed with the idea of sex better than Pixies can. But it's not through us answering your questions that she will benefit, but through wandering around previous posts (as PF suggested) and by asking her own. In my opinion...the best thing you can do to help her is to send her the link.


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