Not to be dark, but I'd think that if something personally tragic happened (God forbid), you would not get an email.

But logic goes out the window when you see something like that. Go ahead and slap her!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.