Yep. Bitch slap her.

Then tell her to get her head out of her ass and run things the way they should be. A family support group is there to SUPPORT THE FAMILIES. Support means being sensitive to their emotions, helping them when they need a hand, and being there for each other for a little morale.

Oh, and one more thing... tell them to make sure there is no place for rumors there. Our FSG was horrible about that and it just made the deployment 10X harder. So-and-so's great aunt's cousins brother's friend doesn't have a clue WTF is going on anyway.