I have been around pixies for a couple of years now. Though most people are tried to be made to feel at home, there are always some people you just can't get along with. I don't post much any more, but I felt this one deserved a response. I have been here under some other names, I made a new one to become anonymous. There is, of course, a group of people on pixies that are better friends than others. That is because more time is spent in chat among that group. That doesn't mean anyone is being left out. That just means they have to jump into chat and get with it. I don't feel that anyone should be offended by the pixie-elite group just because they know all about the site and have been online (and in some cases offline) friends for a long time. I do agree that "flaming" someone is, indeed, very wrong. I have been to a few places where I was burned because I was a newbie. Give people a chance to learn the site, learn the programming, then maybe they can get to the point where everyone else is. I know there is a tech support forum here, but maybe there should be a Newbie Instruction Guide too. That would save everyone some trouble (not to mention maybe I could figure out how to get to chat now since I've been kinda out of the loop for a while).