This has probably been asked before but i'm fairly new here. You see my boyfriend and I are virgins (wish to wait till we are married for sex-don't want to get pregnant, etc) We give each other oral most of the time and now he and I are both open to anal sex. How should we approach it the first time? He has fingered me a few times and he said i was real tight. What should we do to prepare? Any advice would be welcome. Thanx