I have to agree with lix.......if you need to ask then you know the answer.....it all comes down to what you feel is right or wrong......for me....i am a very open person and if my mate wants to cyber or look at pics or have phone sex.....then i have no problem with it....as long as he is honest with me about it...however what's good for the goose is good for the gander....that's what i think most ppl forget......so i say before you do have cyber it might be a good idea to stop and ask yourself how you would feel if it was your partner doing it!!!! then make your choice

But hey its just my Opinion

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