Jumped over here to the Advice Forum for a quick read before I have to bolt to work...and I just didn't want to peruse and go without letting you know, jenna, that my advice is usually long winded (but heartfelt), and I've read all of the responses from the most loving, caring, smart and funny Pixies...and all I keep coming back to in my head is...

"It IS better to have loved and lost...than to have never loved at all"! What I absorb from that statement is that if you don't take a chance once in a while, you'll never know what you might have missed...and it doesn't necessarily have to be love, but could even be a terrific friendship that you might miss out on for not going for it!

I tell ya hun...I'll be thinking of this thread all day cause I care about you jenna and I wish you all the best life has to give!

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