I know I haven't been able to work it all out, it just seems to make some sense on a theoretical level. I don't know what it's like around the world, but in the states you have to take a test to drive a car. You have to get a license to get married, and in most church marriages you have to go through some sort of counseling. To get a job you have to interview. For so many of life's important aspects there is some "form" to complete and someone has to grant "approval" but not for pregnancy and parenthood. I know, my little departure from reality