Osuche is right you do need to meet.

But, dont be discouraged if there is no physical attraction at first.

When my hubby and I exchanged pics I thought- wow- he's so cute- the pic was him at a wedding.

But when he came to my door- he was sporting jean shorts, a tee, a phillies pull over wind breaker, earing in his ear and UGH a backwards baseball cap- I hate those! Also- he was about 40 lbs heavier in person that the pic.

When I opened the door- I was in shock to see someone so different than the pic- know what my initial thought was?....

okay- we are gonna be just friends- but just spending a few hrs with him, falling asleep in his arms that very night and working though a friendship first- I fell head over heels in love with him. Now I think he is the most attractive man I have ever known.

So yes- physical attraction is important- but it doesnt always have to come first.

Good Luck SK ( Barb)