Loulabelle & jouys - the two of you seem to represent the 2 sides of the perverbial fence for me right now. I would like too believe that a relationship with this other woman would, in fact, be all that I woud like it to be. But there are many areas of her "personal" life that I don't know anything about...and just because we are very compatable as friends does not mean we would be just as compatable in the bedroom or even living together. And I think all of us here at Pixie's will agree that incompatabilities in the bedroom are the worst of all ;-)

Since I originally posted this topic, things have progressed a little. I think I am coming to an understanding with my friend...all be it slowly...and hope to get a better understanding of what she's thinking soon. Maybe a little fling wouldn't be a bad idea....we'll see.