I'm not really sure what the question is (doubtful I'd have the answer anyway) ... but has she actually been diagnosed with herpes, if so I would think it very wise to seek professional help ... afterall the embarassment is likely in the diagnosis - and she should be seeking appropriate treatment as well.

Also, I just googled to get the facts before I misinformed... Herpes Simplex One is the oral form that 90% of the population has been exposed to. Of course this can be transferred to the genitals through oral sex during an outbreak. And Herpes Simplex Two is the genital form ... of which 5-10% is caused by Herpes Simplex One...

You might want to clarify which she in fact has as your original post is very misleading.