Unfortunately, you are right... there are lots of women that are with deatbeat losers. As legend stated, many of these women are "nice (personality wise). I only have 2 guesses as to why that might occur... the first being that because they are "nice (peronality wise)" then maybe they aren't "nice (physical wise)" thus they don't get noticed by the "right" guys. The second reason I could imagine is that they have issues which cause them to be attracted to this sort of individual (usually involving self-esteem not believing they could do.or deserve any better).

I deal with this literately every day in my job. I see women making the same mistake time after time and entering into the same relationships with the same kind of men.