You know, Princess, if you've been fucking for nearly 18 months, I think you should stop so one of you can go out and get the milk.

Oh, sorry, was that frivolous? Seriously, I sympathise. I'm a lot older than you (I think so - I'm 56) and my wife and I haven't fucked for about a year. The worst aspect of it for us, we don't talk about it. Literotica, Pixies-Place and EroticStories have become my playgrounds when she's not looking. Perhaps you should take a different approach. Find some erotic stories, pictures, video or whatever, that really turns you on, and bring it out when the boyfriend's around. Then you can give him the choice: does he want to watch while you frig yourself to orgasm, or would he rather join in?

As for "confused"... it'm my middle name!