Okay, after forwarding all of the advice to my friend, he really took to heart what all of you guys were saying. He confronted his girlfriend about it and told her that he would never make her do anything to change and that he liked her just the way she was. She came back with a line that is soooooooooooo old.........."If you really loved me, you'd do it."
So, right after she said that, he finally realized what a bitch she was and dumped her He is not a member of Pixies, but told me to tell all of you wonderful people thank you for your concern and your advice.

Love Ya'll,

Clint