Quoting my grandmother " you'll catch more flys with honey that you will with vinigar"
As a woman your age, I speak what I know and feel on this topic, girls can pick up on vibes that Sharni has mentioned, if you are thinking you want a relationship just for sex... trust me we know. Its hard finding someone but that's why there is trial and error, enjoy the things in single life now, like being able to kiss anybody you want cause if you get a girlfriend you sure as hell ain't gonna be able to do that.

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"I've seen a look in dogs' eyes, a quickly vanishing look of amazed contempt, and I am convinced that basically dogs think humans are nuts." - John Steinbeck