Hi, like others, I'd be worried about the drinking .... I'd also like you to think about that it seems that it is you that is contacting him each time ... I was told some time ago by someone with a whole lot more experience in love relationships than I've ever had ... if he doesn't call often (or contact you in whatever way) he's not really interested in you ... might be interested in hooking up in some way, but if he's interested in you ... and you've done your part to let him know he's not going to be rejected (which you obviously have), then he'll be in touch ... in the meantime, go looking for someone who is a good guy AND doesn't mind his friends knowing that he's spent time with you!