Hmmm - complicated.

It sounds to me as though she has unrealistic expectations of what a relationship is going to be. She wants romance and 'love' but she's not prepared to make any sacrifices or compromises and you have to make tonnes of them, just to accomodate her.

I can only speak from a personal point of view, which is that I wouldn't want to be in that position.

You're sending her mixed messages saying that you'll go to therapy but you want to be divorced still, though. Either you're prepared to go to counselling in which case staying together is your primary priority and objective, or you're ending the marriage and you're going your separate ways.

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