When you setup the plan with the therapist make them aware of the long term goals. Spend as much time in the present planning for the future as possible.

There's a saying, "Look at the past but don't stare."

Set boundaries on the relationship. Are going to be the husband, father or houseboy?

It sounds like she still wants parts of the marriage but not all. Being parents to our son is really important. What else is important?


Tom